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Starting the year with a Blog!


Hello gorgeous reader!

I hope you're having a blast today. After all, it's the first day of the year! Me? I woke up at 9am! I'm having coffee and cupcakes while writing this blog ^_^ (nice morning right?)

Looking back at the past year, it has been roller coaster ride. I left my first job; I went through a though training with my new job; I traveled (finally!); I danced waka-waka (omg! LOL); I loved youtube! (I hope to be a real vlogger someday); and most importantly I found tons of new friends!

I could say that the past year has been a lucky one and I am very grateful for all of the blessings I received. There had been a fair share of obstacles along the year as well. To mention a few; my mom's health, financial needs, frustrations, insincere people, are some of these obstacles. But somehow, I've managed to pull-through.

I guess these challenges were meant to equip me for the year to come; to better appreciate the things I have; to be wise at choosing friends; to carefully think before I act; to care about health; to be brave to pursue dreams; and to treasure loved ones.

The past few years, I have been stressing every new years eve to get everything cleaned and arranged before the new year starts. This year, I chose to do just whatever I can. Just step back and not pressure myself over things and get a chance to enjoy the celebration. So must be off to enjoy the rest of the day. I'll just leave you with a word of advice:

"Relax" it will help you think better; make wise decisions and make the best out of the moment. ^_^

Duka Bay Nov. 2010


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